…where rules are created to deal with the expectations…
He: so I was asked to be this guy Best Man and I don’t know what to write for my speech. I don’t know him that well and I never met the bride to be
She: why did he ask you to be his best man?
He: Well he felt like we got close over the years and that he would like me to be one.
She: see this is something that I am always scare about it… someone feels that they are close to you but you dont feel the same..
He: I know right. I like the guy but it’s just I don’t know him that well
She: So lets make a deal! You gotta know me as much as I know you and you gotta love me as much as I love you! and no wedding speechs is allow in our friendship! Well, I know that you dont plan to get married again, so I have nothing to worry about it, but I promise not give you a hard time if I ever get married.
He: it’s a deal!
She: (this user is shaking your hand)